Don’t Shout At Her
You only lose your respect when you shout at her.
Many men think of women as less superior less worthy and less respectable than them. These types of men don’t just think it, their manners show it. One of the most common things done by these men is that they don’t talk to women in a peaceful manner instead they shout at them. They shout to show that they are more powerful and more strong. But in reality, shouting never means power or strength, it simply means you are an ill-mannered person who lacks the ability to respect the other person.
This shouting happens not only in homes but also in workspaces. Most bad men do it to scare a woman because they think by shouting they can control a woman. Unfortunately, many times they succeed at it because the woman doesn’t respond the way she should or she remains just silent. How should she respond? By shouting at the man the way he shouted at her.
Don’t tell me that a woman should “respond” calmly otherwise she can lose her respect in the eyes of the man. No, she will not lose respect by responding by shouting because the man already doesn’t respect her otherwise why would he shout? It is the man who loses his respect when he first shouts.
No, I am not saying that if a woman does something extremely wrong and really unbearable, the man should still behave very nicely when the right thing to do is to hold that woman accountable. Of course, shouting is not the way to hold someone accountable but if you really do something unforgivable then you should not expect a good response.
I am calling those men “bad” who habitually shout at a woman even when she never does anything wrong, I am talking about those men who shout to show they are more powerful and can control a woman by shouting at her. These kinds of men need to learn that shouting is not a sign of superiority or strength, instead, it is a weakness, and it shows you are not fully mature. Even if you succeed at controlling a woman by shouting at her, she deep down hates you even if she doesn’t say it. By shouting, you give the other person a reason to hate you which I believe is not something you will want. So if you don’t want hate, correct yourself, hold yourself accountable, and learn to do better next time. That’s how we make a positive impact.
