Not Everybody Likes You

Hassan Siddiqui
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2 min readSep 15, 2020

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You cannot become everyone’s favorite!

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In our lives, we often think about people who don’t like us or appreciate us. No matter how much success we get and how many things we accomplish, the hard truth is that not everyone will like us, some people will encourage and support us, some people will hate us, and some people will not even notice us. But our focus should be on people who stand with us and give us the courage to keep going, instead of focus on people who don’t congratulate us or those who don’t seem to be happy on our victory.

We should not waste our time and energy on thinking about people who are not admiring us because it is not our responsibility to make people happy when we achieve something, we cannot demand people to appreciate us. Good people feel happy in other’s happiness, and they absolutely appreciate and encourage those who get success. Sometimes when we look at those who don’t respect or like us then we begin to start doubting our abilities and we forget our accomplishments, this is really not a wise thing to do. The wise thing is we should remember those who love us and believe in us and we should keep working to improve ourselves to become better and better each day.

If you desire to be everyone’s favorite then keep in mind that it cannot happen and there’s no need to try it, you should have confidence in yourself because you don’t need everyone’s love to live a happy life, what you need is honest real love, no matter how few people offer it to you. Create meaningful connections with people, build trust, and be authentic.

Look for quality, make high-quality relationships with people and they will be enough for your joyful life.

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Hassan Siddiqui
One More Thought…

Hassan is a heartfelt thinker who believes in the power of the written word to inspire action and enlighten our lives. He is the author of Twenty Bright Paths.