Personalized Green Flags & Red Flags

Hassan Siddiqui
3 min readMar 19, 2024

Empowering you to craft your own path with personalized red and green flags.

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Day by day, I am noticing a trend on the Internet and social media, a trend about green flags and red flags. I see a lot of posts and videos that motivational speakers and YouTubers usually make and they tell you to follow certain kinds of green flags and avoid certain kinds of red flags.

But the point is, the people on the Internet who are telling you about what to do and what not to do, don’t know anything about your life. They don’t even know that you exist. They don’t know about your circumstances, your personality, your preferences, or anything about your life. So they cannot tell you how what kind of green flags you should follow and what kind of red flags you should avoid in order to move forward in life. And this is the problem.

Whenever I see any kind of post or video in which someone tells you to immediately leave a person in which you see certain kinds of red flags or run after a person in which certain kinds of green flags exist, this thing scares me, because I know that the person who is telling people what to do and what not to do, he or she is totally unaware about everything regarding the people they are giving suggestions to. For example, if I am talking to you right now, I don’t know who are you, I don’t know anything about you. So I cannot tell you what you should do in your life and what you should not do in your life, even if I claim to be an expert or a life coach. Remember, each one of us is unique in the world with a different life, so there is no universal set of rules that can apply to everybody and benefit them. It means one person sitting on the internet cannot dictate to every other person.

So what’s the solution? What we can do about it? I believe if we truly want to benefit from this concept of green flags and red flags, then it is essential for us to have our own personalized list of green flags and red flags. A list that suits our circumstances, our personality, our preferences, and our life goals. But the question is, how can you create this kind of personalized list? This is where my YouTube Channel “Personalized Green & Red Flags” comes in.

Through this channel, I will teach you how you can create your own personalized list of green flags and red flags. A list according to your life; for your life. A list that suits you and serves you best. And by having your own list, you will never fall into this scam. I call it a scam because many people on the Internet are misleading us by giving us a pre-made list of green flags and red flags and telling us to follow it while they know nothing about our lives so how can they tell us what will work for us and what will not?

So if you want to learn how to create a personalized list of your own green flags and red flags, then join my YouTube channel and subscribe to it. Through this channel, we will learn how in a healthy way we can apply this concept of green flags and red flags in a manner that suits our unique individual selves.

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Hassan Siddiqui

Hassan is a heartfelt thinker who believes in the power of the written word to inspire action and enlighten our lives. He is the author of Twenty Bright Paths.