Some Tips About How Females Can Choose A Right Life Partner

Hassan Siddiqui
2 min readDec 5, 2020

A few suggestions and ideas about how women can make the right choice when selecting their life’s partner.

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Choosing a life partner is a difficult decision for ladies. A wrong decision can cause a massive disturbance and dissatisfaction in life that’s why I believe when a girl selects a partner for her, she should do it very carefully. To see if the partner is a good fit for you, spend at least 1 year analyzing and observing him, it means meeting him whenever you can because you cannot know anyone just over the phone. When you think someone should be your life partner, know them as much as you can before you finally decide to marry them. When you spend time together outside, see how he treats and looks at the other women.

Find out how he uses his intelligence. See if he uses vulgar and abusive language when something doesn’t go according to his expectations or remains under his senses. Explore his views about women’s life to check if he is narrow-minded or not. See how much he cares about your dreams, wishes, and the things you want to do or achieve in your life. Discover how supportive he is for yourself. See how much your happiness and peace matter to him.

You should choose the one who can allow you to live your life according to how you want. Choose somebody who believes in your definition of love. Choose someone who doesn’t want to take control of your life but believes in independence. Select the one who doesn’t love you just because you are physically attractive, because if he is focused on you because of your physical attributes then he can move on to someone else also who will have more attraction. Above all, choose the one who understands you truly and accepts you with your imperfections, choose someone who believes in yourself and sees good in you. Find someone who strengthens you when you feel weak, and uplifts you when you feel low. Someone kind to you and devoted to you should be your choice. Above all, choose the one who never gives up on you, no matter how hard it becomes to be with you.

Marriage is a big decision. Marriage means you are deciding to live with someone for the rest of your life. It means you are choosing to spend every day with a person. Make sure you are choosing wisely, work very hard to make sure if he is the right fit for you. Remember, a bad decision can make your life worse. A choice made in a hurry can ruin your life. Whenever you are choosing, choose wisely.

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Hassan Siddiqui

Hassan is a heartfelt thinker who believes in the power of the written word to inspire action and enlighten our lives. He is the author of Twenty Bright Paths.